Korean group blind dates, in Singapore
Four of them. One evening. You decide.
A first date is one person and two hours, and you know inside ten minutes.
This is the other shape. Four single women, four single men, one table, a drink after work. Bring a friend and it stops being a blind date at all — it's your night out, with four people you haven't met yet.
S$25 a seat, about what one cocktail costs. Drinks are yours to settle with the bar.
Bring your own side of the table
This is what makes it a Wednesday out rather than an appointment.
Come with one friend, or two, and half your side is people you already like. You arrive together, you leave together, and you have somebody to compare notes with on the way home.
Nobody's place waits on anybody else — you each put your own name down and pay your own seat.
You don't have to decide now. Put your name down on your own, and the link to send them is waiting on your page afterwards.
Two of them are yours.The other six you haven't met.
Everyone at your table
Verified work or school email
A code to an address a personal one can't fake.
Single, on the record
Asked directly, before anybody is seated.
A real face and name
Shown to nobody. It's how the table gets built.
Paid their own seat
Enough that nobody turns up out of curiosity.
What I can't promise is that you'll like them. Nobody can — which is why you get four, and the last word.
The evening
- 6.55
You walk in and say heykwak. The table is booked in that name.
- 7.00
Eight of you, four a side. There are a few questions on the table, so nobody has to be the one who starts.
- 9.00
It ends. Whatever anybody does after that is their own evening, not something I arrange.
- The next morning
You name whoever you'd see again — one, several, or nobody at all.
- That evening
Where you both said each other, I send you both a number. Where you didn't, nothing arrives and nobody is told.
Why this shape
chances, not one
Never stuck across from one stranger for two hours.
profiles to browse
Nothing for a colleague to scroll past at work.
no rejection, ever
If it isn't mutual, nothing arrives and nobody is told.
before, you get the bar
Not a minute earlier, so it can't be passed around.
How you can come
On your own
You'll be seated with others who came the same way, or beside a pair — never as the only stranger inside somebody else's group.
With a friend
Bring one, or two — single ones, since everybody at the table is. You each put your own name down and pay for your own seat, so nobody's place waits on anybody else.
Three friends is the one shape that doesn't work: it fills three of the four seats on your side and leaves the fourth person as the only outsider all night. Come as two, or as four.
Putting your name down
- 01
Put your name down
Which of the evenings on offer you can make — the next five weeks are up at any one time. Tick as many as work; the more you tick, the sooner you get seated.
- 02
Tell me who you are
A name, a year, what you do, one line, and a photo. The photo is shown to nobody — it's so the table can be put together at all.
- 03
Verify your work or school email
A code, and you're done. It comes before you pay, not after, because it costs nothing and it's what lets everybody at the table relax. No work address? Say so and I'll sort it by hand.
- 04
Then pay
Paying is what holds your place, and a pass covers several nights at a lower price. PayNow, checked by hand.
- 05
I put the table together
Eight people who can make the same evening, seated so nobody sits with someone they've met here before. If I can't seat you, the night goes back on your pass.
- 06
Confirm, then turn up
A tap the day before. Six hours out, the bar lands — along with the age and job of the four people opposite.
Four a side, or three
I aim for four and four. If somebody drops out on the day it runs as three and four, which is a perfectly good evening. Below three on a side I don't run it, and your night goes back on your pass — no refund to chase, nothing to arrange.
What this isn't
It isn't dinner with strangers and it isn't networking. Everyone at the table is single and knows why they're there. If you're after new friends there are better places to spend a Wednesday — I'd rather say so here than have you work it out at the table.
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